My mom is driving me nuts part deux ?

I tried talking to my mama like some of you on here said...but to no avail. Shes still trying to control my avon business. Today when i was trying to ask my doctor if she wanted a brochure i was informing her about the anew night cream. I told her i used some last night and my skin was moisturized but not oily. My mom looked and said "gummeebear you dont need to use any antiaging cream youre too young and will break out"(im 26). This was embaring that my mother was talking to me like i was ten while im trying to do a demonstration.Then i asked her while i was talking to the doctor(about my sinuses) would she ask the receptionist if she could stick a brochure in the waiting room.Well when i came out of the doctors office i asked her if she had asked the receptionist she said "no i made sure to give it to the BLACK ladies in the office" really loud. Now im afraid they wont buy cuz they figure im racist by ociation. She then refused to allow me to drive into a nice looking neighborhood in town to place flyers in the news paper boxes bc she said "too many white people they will shoot you for being black". To make matters worse she refused to put flyers in the newspaper boxes we ped on my street(she was in the pengers seat) bc it was dark and the newspaper boxes may have spiders in them. She then proclaimed that she refuses to run all over town dropping off orders bc gas is too high. I told her id pay for gas and she STILL said no. Im at my wits end any ideas on what to do about my mother trying to control my avon business? Talking to her has NOT helped.