One night stand and pregnant and alone.he doesnt want to help me.if he does,his gf will be around?

i had an ex hu didnt want 2 leave me alone so i decided 2 hav a baby w/sum1 else so he would quit bugging me.i was going 2 hav a party & i knew i would b ovulating that nite so i asked my friend 2 bring his really hot friend around.the friend of the friend came along & he told me he had a gf.he ddnt talk to me much but i still pursued him & followed him evrywhere.he kept on brushing me off but wen he got really drunk,we had 2x.now im 23.5wks pregnant & i told him in august.he confessed 2 his gf wat happened & he cried 2 her & begged 4 her 4givness so she took him back.he told me he wants nothing 2 do w/the baby til the age of 5-10yrs old.he apparently loves his gf & wants nothing 2 do w/me.its not fair that he doesnt want 2 c the baby 4 that long.yet he wants a baby so desperately w/his gf & his gf wants 2 have a baby w/him also.haha atleast im the one hu will be giving him a baby 1st but what do i do to make him c the baby sooner?if he sees the baby 1ce,he'l want 2 c it more.help.